DON’T Make This Texting Mistake!

Dating can be unsafe, as can practically any activity. That does not mean do not date, or be overcautious when dating, but be careful. I ski and I surf, two basically unsafe practices. But with some common sense and good judgment, skiing and surfing can be relatively safe, as can be dating. In particular, online dating has some safety challenges as you are meeting strangers.

Instant chemistry blows away our best interest sometimes – it messes with our “man-picker” and it works against us. We tend to choose chemistry over the whole package…

It often happens that after the break up all on a sudden your ex becomes more handsome or beautiful to your eyes. Your heart beats faster just like it did before and suddenly you start wondering if you can get your ex back.

Thanks to the popularity of social networking, we can all safely say, without embarrassment, that we use online singles websites to connect, flirt, and meet new people. Now we simply have the option of using BETTER online dating sites than the usual Facebook, Twitter and MySpace (err… is it still up?) that everyone uses to stay sociable. It sure wasn’t like that in the 1990s, where the online community was experiencing some growing pains, or even worse, the 1980s when Bulletin Board Systems, newspaper ads, and Lowered Expectations (or something like it!) were your only options!

Most guys talk about gaming girls like it’s some kind of battle. Is that the best metaphor?